Bachelorette parties are seen, by some, to be a rite of passage. Bachelorette parties are accompanied by laughter and joy at the upcoming nuptials of the bride to be. Memories from this event should be enjoyed from a lifetime. Whether the party is for your best friend, sister, cousin, mother or aunt, planning a bachelorette party requires organization and a sense of humor.
Corto’s Salons and Spas are one place to keep in mind if you are looking for the alternative to, well… ”wild and crazy”. But regardless of what and where you choose, here are some things to keep in mind…
1. Make sure that the party you are planning will make the bride-to-be happy and comfortable. Take the bride’s opinion and personality into consideration as you plan her bachelorette party. Many brides do not want a bachelorette party that is wild and raunchy. If the mother or mother-in-law are going to be there, consider not having bawdy games played as these might embarrass the bride. Remember that this party is for the bride. Her wishes are important.
2. Create a budget for the party. Decide how much you can afford to spend. Consider sharing the duties of hosting the party with another friend or bridesmaid and splitting the cost. Contact the bride’s parents and solicit their help in funding the bachelorette party. Make sure that you stay within budget.
3. Instead of the “traditional” wild party, consider having a spa party. The benefits here are that a day at the spa is generally enjoyed by all age groups and is a serene alternative to the wild and crazy outings that may not suit everyone in the bridal party’s liking. Preferably we hope you choose Corto’s, but regardless of your preference, a spa party is a very fun way to go. If the bride loves salsa dancing, take her and the guest to a local salsa club and reserve an area in the VIP. Consider taking a weekend at a secluded spa for the bachelorette party. Surprise the bride-to-be and take her to an expensive restaurant where her friends and family will be waiting. Be creative as you choose a party style that will make the bride-to-be happy.
4. Confirm the location of the party before you send out invitations. If the party is at someone’s house, call the hostess and verify if the party can still be hosted at her house. Make sure that restaurant reservations are set in stone. If it’s a spa party, confirm with your party of the services and times for each person, and have them arrive early so they don’t cut their services short! Besides, having the extra 15 minutes to get settled in the tranquility room with food, wine, and a fireplace is not really so bad! When planning an outdoor party, have an alternative indoor location lined up in case of poor weather.
5. Find out if there is anyone that the future bride would not want at her bachelorette party. Ask the bride if there is anyone that she would particularly want to invite. Decide if your budget will allow for fancy handmade invitations or if you will need to make pretty invitations on your computer. Get the addresses of everyone on your guest list. If you do not have a home address, try to find a work address. Invitations should be sent out a month to a month and a half before the shower. Include directions to the party place as well as ideas for presents in the invitations. Include directions to the party place as well as ideas for presents in the invitations.
6. Plan the games that will be used at the party well in advance. Make bingo cards for Bridal Bingo. Guests who play Bridal Bingo are given a bingo card filled with wedding words when they arrive at the party. They are told to listen carefully to the bride. Every time they hear a word on their card they are to put an “X” across it. The first person to complete a line horizontally, vertically or horizontally wins a prize. Create a word scramble of 30 wedding words and give to party attendees. Give them 4 minutes to unscramble as many words as they can. The person with the most words unscrambled at the end of the time wins. Request that guests come to the party with marriage advice and recipes. Send notecards with the invitations to accommodate this request. Have the guest present the advice and recipes for to the bride. As they do, place the card into a scrapbook. Do the limbo. Dance for an hour.
7. Make note of who attends the party and the gifts that the bride gets. Make sure that the bride gets thank cards to the guests.
We hope you found this information both entertaining and insightful. Best of luck in this exciting time and if you do decide to go the spa route, you can book an appointment at 716-648-3120 or check us out online at www.cortosalons.com
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